Profile of bigcat - Seething mass of contradictions
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Dominant |
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 Benton
Columbia
Pennsylvania
United States |
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7/6/2009 7:17:58 PM |
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7/24/2009 1:16:59 PM |
- Women
- Women, bisexual
- Couples
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- Friendship
- Steady relationship
- One-time play or sexual contact
- Play partner or sexual relationship
- Trio play or sex F-M-F
- Trio play or sex M-F-M
- Group play or groupsex (4 or more)
- Visiting BDSM clubs
- Visiting fetish & kinky parties
- Visiting private play parties
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Seething mass of contradictions
Greetings...
First off, I'm a 250 lb. weightlifter, so actual physical dominance is not an issue.
My first experiences with bd/sm were when I was 3-4 years old, when I would ask my mother to spank me. I was introduced to pornography at about age 12, and saw my first bondage photos. I haven't looked back.
Since I can make changes to this profile at a later date, I will be realtively brief. I have had numerous relationships over the years, but only a few that were based on bdsm. The long term relationships I have been in had a bdsm component, but they were only doing it because I wanted too, and I ended up feeling guilty after. The strictly bdsm relationships were never meant to be anything more than that, basicall fly-bys. I pretty much no longer do the "regular" dating scene, because, at some point, I am going to want to do things to these women that they probably don't want me to do. If they do allow it, I have the guilt factor, If they don't, well, there is no logical reason to continue the relationship..I don't believe I could ever just be vanilla.
I have been, and still are, on some of the other bdsm dating sites, and what I have found is that people talk a good game, then don't come through. I don't get what drives these people to go only so far.. then pull the reins in. I prefer not to affix motives, I think that alot of people are just afraid, but not so afraid as to post an ad, answer messages, make dates, then back out. They probably want to follow through, but can't, for whatever psychological reason.
I am looking for a LTR, but I will settle for a lot less. I just need to let it out.....Time is precious....I'm tired of wasting mine.
More photos to come....
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5.09 ft |
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253.5 lbs (BMI: 37.6) |
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Caucasian |
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Not shaved |
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Associates Degree |
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cleric |
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A lot of experience |
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Single |
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Average smoker
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- Introvert
- Dominant
- Quiet
- Tough
- Daring
- Distant
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