In the past few years I have experimented and experienced a lot. In this process I have met and loved some very special people. I learned about open relationships, and how to make sure everyone gets what they need. And I loved to learn to find a balance by using extremes.

And now I am thirty. I have a lover who is happily married and a cleaning gentleman who is equally happily married...both not to me.  And I find myself wishing for someone who could deal with all that and still be my partner. 

Now this is a need that does not have to be  fulfilled immediately....I have some time. But my niche is quite narrow. And I figured, if lots of long emails and disappointing chats await me to find this person, I might as well get started and get it over with asap. ;)

Now what am I looking for? 

A dark handsome gentleman with a british accent, a Cambridge degree and a passion to serve would be marvelous. A bisexual Stephen Fry type who would equally enjoy holding a cane as stripping down and feeling it, would be fine too. (I know bisexual and S.Fry look a bit odd in one sentence. But it's MY fantasy, so bugger off) An art loving historian with a love for anal play would really make my day. And if all else fails a nerd with a foot fetish will always do. (although he would have to be a really self-confident nerd, or my hacker friends would have him for breakfast) 

And what do I offer in return for these exquisite goods?

A chaotic, messy lady who loves to lie in bed and read. A fashion nerd who wears impractical high heels to visit her grand-mother and walk in the fields. Someone who is always broke because she forgets to send out her invoices. A girl who deeply loves her lovers and would not for any candy in the world, be persuaded to part with her toys. A tall slender woman who takes great pleasure in tormenting men and bringing tears to their eyes. (although tears of emotion and devotion are preferred to tears of frustration) 

If you think this is a fair deal and have something to offer me, please feel free to start a correspondence. If you know some-one who has such a man lying around without using his full potential: I am willing to share, as long as I get parental control. Since I would eventually expect him to handle some simple tasks like changing diapers and giving me children, older men need not apply. Location is not important, willingness to travel is.